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At What Age Should Girls Start Wearing Makeup

What age do girls beginning to wearable make-upwardly?

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Squirrel3 Thu 23-Feb-06 06:43:34

I was effectually 13 when I started to experiment with make up. My dd was almost the same historic period.

The reason I enquire is dsd (historic period 10) has been turning upwards wearing total make up (eye shadow, mascara, lipstick and blusher!) Yesterday evening she was wearing as much make-up as I wear for a nighttime out. Dp was livid and told her to wash it off. It turns out her mother is putting the make-up on for her, dp asked her if she asks her mum to put information technology on for her and she replied no "Mum just puts it on". It's like her Mum is playing 'dress up the little doll', and I realise that its up to her mother how dsd is brought up simply surely dp should have a say. I'm sure dsd likes to wear brand upward, but dp and I experience at 10 years of age she is far to immature.

In our opinion she dresses far too old for her historic period, she is ever dresses in the height of fashion in designer wearing apparel. Her mother goes mad if she gets whatsoever of these clothes dirty, dp and I feel that "she is a ten year old, let her be a ten yr erstwhile and run around in the park in a pair of trainers and jeans and let her get muddied if that is what she wants".

Her mother seems to please in the fact that she has several boys hanging effectually, "My daughter is and so pretty, look at all of the boys chasing her". I just think that she is creating a problem for dsd. Is her female parent still going to be proverb the same affair when she is 13?

Maybe dp and I are over reacting but nosotros are worried about dsd being fabricated to grow up far to quickly.

FairyMum Thu 23-February-06 06:56:12

Agree with yous. 10 is still a child. I would never let mine habiliment make-up at this age and would worry what other people thought and how they would treat a 10 yr-one-time who might look a lot older than she was.

SecondhandRose Thu 23-Feb-06 07:37:59

No yous're not over reacting. Mother sounds bonkers.

Sparklemagic Thu 23-February-06 08:thirteen:41

Squirrel, you are not overreacting at all, information technology is highly inappropriate, and really actually distressing for this girl that she has to worry about her apparel and make up when she should be enjoying a carefree childhood.

I once had a friend and her 3 yr old DD circular, and the 3 yr onetime actually refused to go out in the garden as she might get her boots dirty.....

Makes me and then cantankerous that these kids can't but romp about like kids.

Squirrel3 Thu 23-Feb-06 08:21:01

Kids should be allowed to be kids IMO.

Its nice to know that we are not over reacting, simply I just know her mother is going to become balistic when dp talks to her later considering he dared to tell dsd to wash it off.

Blandmum Thu 23-Feb-06 08:26:24

ten is way too younge IMO.

I see a lot of girls in y7 wearing total face make upward. These are oftentimes girls in trouble for lots of other things as well IME....not all of them , apparently, merely lots of them. Early sexualisation worries me, and I experience that kids lose out on being kids

fastasleep Thu 23-February-06 08:33:09

My cousin (in law? Is there such a matter!) is only gone seven I retrieve (she might be vi) and all she got for Christmas was brand up from everybody, which she thought was cracking! Merely the thing is it doesn't look suggestive at all, it depends very much on what kind of brand up

Your friend's DD, well that sounds inappropriate, why on Earth is her mother getting boys to chase her?! Is she flipping insane? I'd thwack her with a broom personally. Childhood is important and far too short as it is.

NotActuallyAMum Thu 23-February-06 08:41:13

Totally agree - x is far too immature. My dsd started wearing bits of make-up virtually a twelvemonth ago, she does now wear mascara, eye-liner and eye shadow - merely just when we're going out somewhere and she's xiii side by side week

biglips Thu 23-Feb-06 09:02:16

i was 7 when i experiementing brand up (for a laff) every bit me and my friend were pretend to be grown ups but i was 14 when i wore brand up properly

SD is almost 7 and had been experimenting makeup since she was v... we think its far likewise young too but its normal these days!!

Blandmum Thu 23-Feb-06 09:07:44

it isn't normal in my house

biglips Thu 23-Feb-06 09:10:28

Simply sd wears eye shadow and lippy in the firm - dp doesnt wants her to wear so outside nad we dont buy her makeup as others practice (Xmas & B/days)

Blandmum Thu 23-Feb-06 09:12:54

I think it is quite sad that she wants to wear brand up....is this every day? Or more of a 'play with make upwards' option?

discourse Thu 23-Feb-06 09:sixteen:09

My DD vii plays with make up in the aforementioned way that she plays with hairdressing and wearing jewellery.

I recollect information technology would all-time exist described as a more grown up version of dressing upward.

It is merely glitter pulverisation, pink! eyeshadow and lipgloss.

The but time she wears it outside the house is to a disco party - where she dresses upward in disco attire.

I call up 10 is much too immature for proper makeup. For me condign a teenager was the time where I was allowed make up. I was only immune to wear information technology in very limited circumstances though! I was never allowed to wear it to school and the DCs school do not permit obvious make up either (I recollect they let a concealer for spotty faces) - and their school goes all the fashion through to upper 6th.

Squirrel3 Thu 23-Feb-06 09:25:32

Play make upwards is fine as long as it is indoors etc, but dsd goes out to play wearing it. When dp told her to wash it off she constitute information technology almost impossible because the mascara was that 24 hour waterproof stuff.

Her brand upward is put on in an adult way and makes her look older. I remember playing around with my Mums lipstick when I was niggling but this is different, it is more than like a teenager thing not a 10 year old IYKWIM.

Squirrel3 Thu 23-February-06 09:27:51

I told her she doesn't need make up considering she is so pretty without it!

bamboozleslover Wed 26-Jul-06 19:58:48

i was eleven (Y7) when i started wearing brand upwards ...

Skylight Tue 08-Aug-06 15:28:52

I think x is very young and i think it's unsafe for girls to go out to school and during the weekends dressed so developed. it attracts the wrong kind of attention. I can come across why you and your dp are upset about it, i don't recollect your over reacting at all!

My step girl is 3 and has been coming to our house with lipstick, foundation and nail varnish on since she was 2 years old! i cant stand it, it's bad for her skin and the nail varnish stains her little fingers and hurts her when i take it off with nail varnish remover. And this is all considering her mother wants to dress her similar a dolly and puts her in little cheer leading style skirts and belly tops! she's three and should be dressed accordingly in my opinion.

Nosotros had and so much trouble with this issue because as presently as my SD came circular each week i would remove the make upwards and nail varnish (and still practise) but her female parent thought that this was awful and told us that we weren't treating her daughter similar a petty daughter and that it was underminiding what she wanted for her little girl. And so as penalization she stopped us from seeing my SD every week for ii months (we were simply allowed to see her in one case every other week instead of the four nights a week nosotros usually accept her) however she soon went dorsum to our normal routine when she found that she couldn't cope with looking later on her full time and when she couldn't go out every weekend because she had no babysitter. Merely it wasn't till after 2 months that we got her dorsum to 4 nights a week. I couldn't believe that because of a bit of make up my SD's routine and life was turned upside down and me and my partner went through 2 months of hell.

I think me and my partner were correct to put our foot down and we would practise information technology again, just i'm amazed that some mothers would go to such lengths to show their power over their children and over the stride mum and brand thier daughters wear make upward when their then young and aren't able to choose this.

I think it's ok to experiment at nearly vii/viii but i remember children shouldnt exist wearing proper make upwardly untill their at to the lowest degree 13/xiv.

lilmamma Sat 12-Aug-06 07:31:48

My daughter is 13,and she wears a little articulate mascara,and a bit of blusher,every bit she is quite stake,and some lip gloss,i think this is enough,and is quite happy,she says you lot should run into,some of the girls in school.If they wear too much too young like foundation,they will ruin their skin,my auntie used to wear in a big department store,and she said the women on the make up stall,all had problems with their skin every bit they were touching and making it up all solar day.I call back its just the way of life today,which is sad..

Judy1234 Sun 13-Aug-06 xv:45:49

I'm very against it. My daughters were old - 16+ before they did. I recall getting them involved with riding horses, in an all girls school, no boys around etc helped continue them as little girls. no crop tops. Don't buy girlie things like barbies, let them be tom boys. All that stuff helps. The sexualisation of girls at a young historic period is not good. That said depends on the person. My female parent started her periods at 10 in the 1930s and had boys hanging round her at fourteen even so my daughter started at fourteen so does depend on the child.

colditz Dominicus xiii-Aug-06 16:05:28

"My daughter is so pretty, look at all the boys chasing her"

I will be warning my sons away from girls with mothers like this - they are the starting time ones to scream statutory rape when the girl comes abode meaning at fourteen.

Tortington Dominicus xiii-Aug-06 16:59:06

my dd wears eyeliner - at weekends only. she is 13.

10 is very young - y'all must tell her the virtually cute women don't need much make-up. but actually fugly tarts demand shit loads of make-upward becuase they are so fugly. She is soo pretty but no-one can see - they recall she must be fugly under that makeup becuase she ears lots of information technology.

and it will give her spots and make her actually ugly

catemary Thu 17-Aug-06 xi:41:02

My dsd has come to our firm several times, admittedly when there was a pantomine or party, wearing obvious eyeshadow, blusher, mascara and lipstick. She is vii. I let my girls play with lipgloss etc in the house but they are NEVER allowed out in it. I call back this girls' mum is loopy. My other dsd is 14 and has her omphalus pierced. I wonder why our teenage pregnancy rate is so high? Sorry, highly contemptuous annotate!!!!!!!

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